Category Archives: casual sex

Love fool

Posted on March 8, 2012 by Adventure Girl

Adventure Girl learns a lesson on being in lust ‘Knowing my luck, I’ll meet someone I actually want to be with who is rubbish in bed.’ People often talk about having a ‘type’, a particular physique or other combination of attributes … Continue reading →

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Having my cake

Posted on January 2, 2012 by Adventure Girl

Adventure Girl ponders the perils of wanting it all ‘So, you’re poly?’ ‘Um. I am?’ I consider myself a free agent. I like to see more than one person, ongoing but casually, and not always just for sex. Having one … Continue reading →

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Never known

Posted on June 22, 2011 by Rhonda Perky

It’s my back as I leave that you love best Everything about me that you’ll never know You love my absence Of identity Of responsibility an idea a Presence and the lack of anything more an Object, romanticised, sexualised never … Continue reading →

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‘Nobody buys flowers for the porn-pile girl’

Posted on May 29, 2011 by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover what it means to be a Modern ‘Slut’. ‘Men want women to be sluts and now they’re buying in,’ — Professor Gail Dines, quoted in the Brisbane Times. Until a few years … Continue reading →

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‘No Strings…?’ Well, maybe a few…

Posted on March 17, 2011 by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky goes under the f*ck-buddy covers to discover a particularly stringy line Don’t let anyone who has a f*ck-buddy (FB) tell you they are not in a relationship. They are. It’s not an exclusive/monogamous relationship, nor is it an … Continue reading →

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In the dark…

Posted on March 16, 2011 by Rhonda Perky

I realise I don’t know you don’t want to know you nor you me but also that I like it this way.

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The Rules of the Game

Posted on February 2, 2011 by Adventure Girl

This is actually the first piece I wrote for Rhonda Perky’s Bits, but held off publishing for obvious reasons. It came to mind just now given I am re-entering the Game, hopefully this time, better equipped! Happy reading. –AG Adventure … Continue reading →

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App downloaded, will f*ck

Posted on July 18, 2010 by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to locate an instant lover Pine no longer for tawdry men’s room hookups! TheXChange is an application for your iPhone or iPod Touch that will allow you contact people in your area (and outside … Continue reading →

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‘No strings, yes please…’

Posted on May 9, 2010 by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky goes under-the-covers to blow a load over Red Hot Pie. So you’re keen to find Mr No-Strings-Attached for some regular fun, or maybe a Mr One-Night-Stand for an all night scratch? Forget the hit and miss of bars … Continue reading →

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