Tag Archives: abusive

‘Are you going to be a good girl?’

Posted on January 13, 2012 by Rhonda Perky

Rhonda Perky dons her collar and surrenders her will to her lover When I talk about being a Submissive, I am referring to my desire to be dominated by another, sexually. This means being objectified and giving up my will … Continue reading →

Posted in BDSM, relationships | Tagged abusive, dominant, relationship dynamics, respect, submissive | 1 Comment

When the truth lies

Posted on May 7, 2011 by Adventure Girl

Adventure Girl takes stock of a toxic truth ‘Just now I held up the fingers of my hand to you. You saw five fingers. Do you remember that?’ ‘Yes’ O’Brien held up the fingers of his left hand, with the thumb … Continue reading →

Posted in reflections, relationships | Tagged abusive, cognitive dissonance, compulsive liar, Gaslighting, narcissism | 3 Comments

The Rules of the Game

Posted on February 2, 2011 by Adventure Girl

This is actually the first piece I wrote for Rhonda Perky’s Bits, but held off publishing for obvious reasons. It came to mind just now given I am re-entering the Game, hopefully this time, better equipped! Happy reading. –AG Adventure … Continue reading →

Posted in casual sex, dating, relationships, single life | Tagged abusive, compulsive liar, expectations, f-buddy, rules | 3 Comments

‘Of all the girls, I choose you.’

Posted on January 26, 2011 by Adventure Girl

Adventure Girl puts the pieces together A while back I wrote a post on being THAT girl. Recently, and to my horror, I discovered I can be another kind of girl, too. The girl you see on trains with a … Continue reading →