Tag Archives: bullying

After the crab crawled, or ‘doormat-no-more’

Posted on September 14, 2010 by Rhonda Perky

‘She needs to grow up. She’s a dissatisfied middle-aged woman who sees herself growing old in an unhappy relationship, with kids taking away her life and she’s jealous of your freedom, although she wouldn’t have had the balls to make … Continue reading →

Posted in family, little bits of life, relationships | Tagged bullying, control, crabs-in-a-basket, expectations, self-esteem | 8 Comments

When a crab crawls out of its basket

Posted on September 6, 2010 by Rhonda Perky

From a very young age we are each cast into a mould. It shapes us as we shape it. We grow and evolve among like-minded people, or at least, among people who share a part of our mould. But as … Continue reading →