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A Unicorn’s Survival Guide
Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover how to survive as a single in the Swinger’s Scene. A ‘Unicorn’ is so called because they are mythical creatures: the single female (or male) who appears to fulfil a couple’s erotic fantasy, and … Continue reading
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Learning my limits
Roberta Bust opens up about swinging solo Since my last blog, my situation has changed. I am no longer in an open marriage; we decided that it was better to part ways. Now, I am separated and learning how to … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, reflections, single life, swinging
Tagged boundaries, challenge, dress-ups, self-confidence
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A square peg in a round hole
Adventure Girl learns a lesson on being ‘in like’ “If I was meant to come in a box with a label slapped across me, I would have been produced by Mattel.” Recently I met someone I actually connect with, who … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, libido, open relationship, personal, reflections, relationship dynamics
Tagged love, lust, married sex, monogamy, monotomy, polyarmoury
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Whose threesome is it anyway?
Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to discover if three can ever be less than a crowd Ever had one of those drunken hook-ups that somehow end up with three of you in a bed? Or maybe you’ve arranged to … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, group sex, open relationship, relationship dynamics, swinging
Tagged communication, couples, etiquette, threesome
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Keeping the adventure alive, or ‘Homeward bound’
It’s my last morning in Buenos Aires and my last morning on this particular adventure. In less than an hour I will be on my way to the airport for the final leg home. As I’m writing this I can’t … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, reflections, south america, travel
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Recipe for adventure: just add people
‘Girls who go on trekking tours don’t do one night stands,’ – a fellow trekker on the Inca Trail. For my first real solo-adventure, I opted for safety in numbers, and jumped on a few smallish group tours. I figured … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, south america, travel
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The Guide Gallery
Having toured now for over a month, I’ve encountered tour guides in all shapes and sizes, but whatever the attraction, the excursion, or the adventure, you can be sure to come across one (or more) of the following types: The … Continue reading
The New Adventures of old Adventure Girl
So this is it. Looks like I am actually going. Like really, actually going. After all the angst and doubt and doubt and angst. F**k it, I’m going. Better than that, I’m going with barely a few days to plan, … Continue reading
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What colour is your Polaroid?
Adventure Girl finds spiritual enlightenment… well, sees a picture of her aura, anyway So apparently I’m clairvoyant. I know this because Chris from Enlightenment Photography knows this. ‘See how the purple extends almost all the way to the edges? That … Continue reading
on being THAT girl
Adventure Girl gets perky I’ve never been THAT girl before, you know the one who turns up to the party wearing not much on the outside and even less underneath, the one who makes the guys drool and their girlfriends … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, little bits of life, role play, social commentary
Tagged dress-ups, self-confidence
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A tribute to Rose Buckner, a woman who knew how to get what she wanted
Adventure Girl ventures into the past to learn how to ‘Make do and live comfortably’, Rose Buckner-style. ‘No matter the size of the home, it is the way you plan it that counts. Like me, you may start off in … Continue reading
Posted in reviews, social commentary
Tagged history, housewife, marriage, Rose Buckner
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the look of lust
Rhonda Perky pays homage to the website that aims to please by bringing you the look of being pleased… for real. Tired of seeing porn stars who look as though they’d rather be hanging out the washing, watching test cricket, or … Continue reading
App downloaded, will f*ck
Rhonda Perky goes under the covers to locate an instant lover Pine no longer for tawdry men’s room hookups! TheXChange is an application for your iPhone or iPod Touch that will allow you contact people in your area (and outside … Continue reading
Posted in casual sex, dating, reviews
Tagged App, hook-ups, no strings attached, the XChange
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‘…not for the faint of heart’
Rhonda Perky goes under-the-covers to unleash the Beauty, Truth and Horror of Atrocity Burlesque Described as ‘a contemporary, thought-provoking and visceral brand of cabaret, burlesque and cinema for the new age’, Atrocity Burlesque at the Burlesque Bar on Johnston Street, … Continue reading
A lesson in online etiquette
Adventure Girl tries her hand at Chatroulette ‘Show boobs or I will push the bird towards the snake!’ http://www.gizmodo.com.au/2010/03/nsfw-infallible-method-to-get-chatroulette-boob-flashing/ I recently spent a Friday night with friends playing chatroulette (don’t ask – we were VERY drunk). After all the hype, … Continue reading
Posted in adventures, reviews, social commentary
Tagged chatroulette, etiquette, masturbation, website
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‘Happily Ever… Before and After’
Thinking of getting hitched? Rhonda Perky shares her top pre-marital pointers, as found on Flowinglove.com: ‘take your time to develop a friendship with your potential partner‘… because when the well of sex dries up, you need to have something to … Continue reading →